If total strangers and friends think you guys are giving off couple vibes, it's because he's absolutely wishing you two were a couple.Ģ. The guy he saw was not my boyfriend, but he was a guy friend I thought might be into me.
One time I had a guy at a bar tell me he didn't ask me out because he saw I had a boyfriend. Your friends ask if you guys are a thing yet. Not because I'm oblivious but because it's so easy to see those signs and not want to be That Person who assumes someone is totally into her when he's actually just being a really good friend who happens to be a guy.īecause I tend to lean toward 'maybe he's just being nice!!!' and usually need to be beaten over the head with mixtapes, picnics, and quirky flower arrangements before I start to think, 'Wait, does Jeff like me?' while everyone around me rolls their eyes and says, 'Yes, are you kidding?' I can save you some of that time.ġ. I can't tell you how many times I've had a guy friend who I was into who I kiiiind of thought was into me too but I couldn't really tell.
